The Externship in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is the basic four-day training in EFT and a pre-requisite for all other trainings. It includes an overview of all aspects of the model including steps and stages, interventions, adult attachment theory, and application of EFT with couples. The Externship material is taught with a variety of teaching methods including lecture, interactive discussions, role plays, video demonstrations. The course includes observation of live, unscripted therapy sessions with real couples, presentations of attachment theory and clinical techniques, skills training exercises, and discussion of specific clinical material.
What Is EFT?
Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples (EFT) is based a comprehensive theory of adult love and attachment, as well as a process for healing distressed relationships. It recognizes that relationship distress results from a perceived threat to basic adult needs for safety, security, and closeness in intimate relationships. This experiential/systemic therapy focuses on helping partners restructure the emotional responses that maintain their negative interaction patterns. Though a series of nine steps, the therapist leads the couple away from conflict deadlock into new bonding interactions. A substantial body of research now exists on the effectiveness of EFT, showing large treatment effect sizes and stable results over time with many different kinds of couples.
For more information about Emotionally Focused Therapy, please go to http://iceeft.com
Who Should Attend?
The Externship is intended for mental health professionals who counsel couples including psychiatrists, psychologists, social workers, marriage and family therapists, licensed professional counselors, clergy, and students training in these professions.
By attending, participants will:
Obtain a clear understanding of the basic experiential and systemic concepts of an “Emotionally Focused” approach to couples therapy.
Develop skills in helping partners reprocess the emotional responses that maintain relational distress.
Develop skills in helping partners shape new interaction patterns and bonding events.
Develop skills to overcome therapeutic impasses with couples.
- Delineate the steps and stages of the model, interventions most commonly used, and methods to use with couples' underlying interactional patterns.
- (See below for specific learning objective for each day).
Nancy Gardner, Ph.D., is a Co-Founder and Past President of the Los Angeles Center for EFT (LACEFT), a licensed psychologist with a clinical practice in Westlake Village, CA. Dr. Gardner has been a mental health professional for over forty five years. She taught couple therapy for over a decade at the California School of Professional Psychology at Alliant International University in Los Angeles. Dr. Gardner is an ICEEFT Certified Trainer, Therapist and Supervisor in Emotionally Focused Therapy, a AAMFT Approved Supervisor, and a Past President of the Los Angeles County Psychological Association (LACPA). To learn more about Dr. Gardner, go to NancyGardnerPh.D.com.
Here are some comments from therapists who attended recent externships led by Dr. Gardner:
This was one of the most outstanding workshops I have attending so far in my training. I really appreciated the variety of learning experiences through seeing different EFT therapists, live sessions, different coaching.
This exceeded my expectations. I could apply what I learned right away in my practice.
This course was taught with compassion which created a safe, nurturing environment.
I thought it was thorough and inspiring and challenging without being overwhelming.
It was fantastic. Excellent integration of theory and how to apply it.
I really appreciated the externship. It has allowed me to deepen my work.
I learned so much that was new and inspiring, in particular, slowing down and deepening the emotional experience for the client.
Nancy was amazing. Very real.
I really enjoyed Nancy's style of teaching. She is authentic and patient
Note that On Days 3 and 4, two distinguished EFT Trainers will give brief presentations at the Externship:
Michael Barnett, LPC, is an ICEEFT certified EFT Supervisor and Trainer offering Marriage and Couple therapy trainings and workshops throughout North America. He is the founder and director of the Atlanta Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and he has recently moved to Los Angeles and joined the LA EFT training team. Michael has been a psychotherapist since 1986. In addition to his psychotherapeutic work, he has consulted with dozens of organizations for executive training development and team building. Michael specializes in working with couples on the addictive continuum and offers specialized trainings for therapists in addiction and couple therapy. He co-created a research study of EFT with addicted populations.
Michael will join us on Friday, March 5 to do a live interview with a couple and discuss it with us.
Lorrie Brubacher, LMFT, is the Founding Director of the Carolina Center for EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy). A certified trainer with the International Centre for Excellence in EFT (ICEEFT), she has been an individual, couple and family therapist since 1989. She is an adjunct faculty at University of North Carolina, Greensboro. She trains internationally and publishes on the topic of EFT, and EFIT specifically. She co-developed EFT’s first interactive video training program on the EFT Attachment Injury Resolution Model, has many EFT couple and individual training videos, and published various articles and chapters on EFT. Her book Stepping into Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy: Key Ingredients of Change (2018), has been called “an amazing book! … a must-read for anyone interested in learning EFT!” by Scott R. Woolley, Ph.D. Distinguished Professor, Alliant International University. Her book and trainings have been translated into over 10 languages.
Lorrie will join us on Saturday, March 6 to briefly discuss and demonstrate working with individuals using Emotionally Focused therapy.
Other details regarding the Externship
*This workshop is an ICEEFT-approved prerequisite course for certification in Emotionally Focused Therapy.
This is a 4-day externship offered over two 2-day blocks. Participants must attend all four days in order to receive CE credit and a certificate of completion from ICEEFT.
This training is sponsored by the Los Angeles Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy (LACEFT). LACEFT is approved by the American Psychological Association to sponsor continuing education for psychologists. LACEFT is also approved by the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapist (CAMFT) to sponsor continuing education for LMFT's, LCSW's,and LPC's. LACEFT maintains responsibility for this program and its contents.
28 hours of continuing education credits can be earned by attending this program in its entirety.
Time and Location Details: The Externship will meet each of the four days from 8:30AM until 5:00PM. Due to the COVID-19 Pandemic, this Externship will be offered online.
Limited Scholarships available for therapists in the LA area
To qualify for consideration, applicants must meet the following criteria:
- Have demonstrated experience or interest in working with black clients
- Have demonstrated knowledge or experience in African American cultural issues.
- Work in historically marginalized communities.
- Have low income.
- Live and work in the Greater Los Angeles Area
Application deadline is February 12. To apply, please email [email protected] and speak to your professional status, current job or study emphasis, and specifically which of the above criteria you meet.
Johnson, S.M. (2019) Attachment Theory in Practice: EFT with Individuals, Couples and Families. New York: Guilford Press.
Johnson, S.M.(2004) The Practice of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy: Creating Connection, 2nd edition. New York: Brunner-Routledge.
Johnson, S.M.,Bradley, B., Furrow, J., Lee, A., Palmer, G., Tilley, D., Woolley, S. (2005) Becoming an Emotionally Focused Couple Therapist. New York: Brunner-Routledge.
Brubacker, L.L. (2018) Stepping into Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy. Karnac Books Ltd, London.
Refunds can be made until two weeks before the Externship starting date. There will be a $75 administrative charge.
Accommodations for Special Needs:
Contact me at [email protected] if you need special accommodations
Responses to grievences will be made within thirty days. If you have a grievance about this program, please contact Kristina Jackson. LMFT., President of the LA Center for EFT, at [email protected]
Specific Educational Objectives for each day: .
Day 1: Introduction to Couple Distress, Attachment Theory, Process of EFT
1. Describe the nature and causes of marital distress
2. Describe basic Attachment Theory and how it informs working with couples in EFT.
3. Describe the systemic and experiential elements of EFT.
4. Describe change factors involved in a couple moving from distress to recovery.
5. Describe the Nine Steps and Three Stages of EFT.
6. Practice the basic empathy skills that are central to the therapeutic process in EFT .
Day 2: Assessment, Alliance Stage 1 (Steps 1-4 of EFT)
1. Describe and practice assessment skills in EFT (Steps 1 & 2).
2. Describe and practice how to create a therapeutic alliance using: empathic attunement, validation, acceptance, genuineness.
3. Describe and practice how to enter experience of partners to find out how each constructs his/her experience of their relationship.
4. Describe and practice how to track and frame the sequences of interaction that perpetuate couples' distress. 5. Describe the difference between primary and secondary emotions.
6. Describe and practice how to frame the negative cycle (e.g., pursue/withdraw) emphasizing attachment needs (e.g., closeness, connection, importance of the other, fear of loss).
Day 3: EFT Interventions and Change Events Stage 2 (Steps 5-7 of EFT)
1. Describe systemic and experiential theories that underlie EFT interventions.
2. Describe and practice the basic EFT interventions for working with emotion, i.e. reflection, validation, evocative responding, empathic conjecture and heightening.
3. Describe and practice how to use RISSSC to heighten emotional experience.
4. Describe and practice how to facilitate interaction between partners by using enactments.
5. Explain how to put the interventions together to facilitate change events.
6. Describe the three change events in EFT: de-escalation, withdrawer engagement and pursuer softening.
7. Describe and practice the skills of accessing, exploring and deepening emotion.
8. Describe and practice the skills of facilitating acceptance.
9. Describe how to choreograph change events using enactments.
Day 4: Becoming an EFT Therapist/Attachment Injuries
1. Explain the EFT Tango as it applies to individuals in Emotionally Focused Therapy for Individuals
2. Explain attachment injuries from an Attachment Theory perspective.
3. Explain the steps toward resolving attachment injuries, creating forgiveness.
4. Describe and practice EFT skills toward resolving attachment injuries. 5. Describe key interventions with escalated couples.
6. Describe an EFT approach to managing co-morbidities such as depression and sexual dysfunction 7. Summarize ways to continue learning EFT and refining skills in this method of therapy.
ICEEFT Stance on Diversity: Dr. Gardner is certified by ICEEFT, and abide by the following stance adopted by ICEEFT
At the International Center for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) we are dedicated to developing secure, resilient individuals and successful trusting relationships between partners and within families across the globe. As such, we stand against all forms of racism and discrimination and stand in support of the Black community. With new eyes, we condemn the abhorrent impact of systemic racism in our world, our societies, and in our own organization.
We are committed to listening, learning and growing, so that we can better embody our values of inclusion, equality and diversity. We can and will do better. As a community, we commit to becoming an anti-racist organization, working in close collaboration with our Diversity and Inclusion Group, as well as with members in our community who have experienced marginalization. Together we will fight racism, both as a principle and as a tangible reality in our training programs, our clinical work and our interactions with communities across different countries and cultures.
Our renewed aim is to share our expertise and knowledge in the service of healing racial trauma, helping people value differences and enabling them to also embrace our common humanity. We will take a more focused and deliberate action to welcome and promote greater openness and compassion in all our endeavors.
With inclusion, equity, and diversity as foundational values, our work will continue to remain grounded in attachment science which asserts that we are all wired for connection and share common needs to be seen, valued and supported by others.
With so much to learn we will remain curious and committed to our aspirations to become an equitable organization where everyone can thrive—until we get it right. Working together we will get there.